Dear my future daughter,
Right now, I'm a long way from being your mom, but I feel as though I have some wisdom to share and wanted to remember the experiences I've encountered in my first 18 years.
1. Never Doubt Yourself. Don't doubt yourself, what you can achieve, what you dream, what you want because once that tiny seed of doubt wiggles it's way into your mind you won't achieve whatever it is you wanted. Without doubt your potential is limitless. Let your life be filled with limitless potential. Never doubt yourself because I won't; I'll believe in you whenever you don't believe in yourself.
2. Love fearlessly. Love is the most beautiful, magical thing on this planet. Yes, one can argue technology, but love makes you feel so alive that it takes you into a different world. It lifts your whole being into a different sphere and that is truly magical. Of course, love can easily turn into heartbreak, but having that love and connection with someone, no matter if it lasts or not is still something that should be cherished and learned from.
3. Never let anyone make you feel like you aren't good enough. Be open with people, allow them to come into your life, but if their words and actions are a toxicity to you, you are better off without them. The only person who can judge you, is you, as you are the "Master of your fate, Captain of your soul," as wisely stated by Henry Ford.
4. Don't be afraid to come to me with anything, because as your mom, I've been there, done that, have the scar to prove it, and probably some kick ass advice. Or ice cream. Ice cream always works too.
5. Live and cherish every moment to its fullest because before you know it, it will have all passed by.
6. See the beauty and good in everything. Finding the bad is easy, but finding the good, well, that's what's really special.
7. Smile laugh, dance it out. Life is too short to be pulled down by sadness, so make sure you smile and laugh because even something as simple as the upturned motion of your lips can make all the difference. As I always say, laughing is good for the soul.
8. Don't let your dreams just be dreams, make them into your reality.
I can't wait to meet you and experience your life with you,
Love always,
your future Mom
Dance like there's no tomorrow,
Court